Today I travel to Lexington for a 1-day symposium on Robert E. Lee sponsored by the Lee Chapel. I will share my thoughts later today if time permits.
"We can scarcely take up a newspaper that is not filled with nauseating flatteries of the late Robert E. Lee…. It would seem from this that the soldier who kills the most men in battle, even in a bad cause, is the greatest Christian." — Frederick Douglass
The truth is, Lee lived an all too human existence, fraught with dilemmas and decisions that would challenge the sturdiest soul. He handled some of these situations well, others with disastrous errors. Never did he turn away, however, and even his sharpest critics never questioned his steadfastness. This is where our sympathy with him lies; here and in the heart-rending way that he strove, but failed, to achieve his dreams–number two at West Point by fractions of a point; perennially disrupted in the home life he coveted; denied professional recognition until he stood on the very brink of national disaster; defeated when he had so confidently felt the capacity for victory. Through all this he was brave and tenacious, and set no limits on what he would give or try to accomplish. Yet Lee, who could be as self-serving as any of us, was not intrinsically more virtuous than others. He simply harnessed his fine points–notably persistence and self-control–to overcome failings within and around him. The greatest honor we can give Lee is to admire him for who he actually was, rather than as an imaginary creature, which only insults him by implying that the reality was inadequate. — Elizabeth B. Pryor, Reading the Man: A Portrait of Robert E. Lee Through His Private Letters (pp. 470-71)