From Wikipedia: Set during the American Civil War, “Rebel Love follows a Yankee war widow who takes an injured Confederate spy into her home out of pity, only to find herself falling in love with him. The film was a finalist in the 1985 USA Film Festival in Dallas. Despite a modest theatrical run, Rebel Love enjoyed a cable release on Showtime and was later distributed on video by Vestron.
All I know is I laughed my ass off! Apparently, this movie fell through the cracks. I couldn’t find it in Gary Gallagher’s recent survey of Civil War movies.