Lee for Sale at Mount Vernon?

bob-leelargeOne of my readers came across this little item in the Mount Vernon gift shop.  He thought it would make for a wonderful Hanukkah present for me and I couldn’t agree more.  It’s never too early to think about showing your appreciation for your favorite Civil War blogger.  At first I was confused as to why Mount Vernon would offer for sale a Lee bobblehead.  Well, maybe not too confused.  So, what’s the connection?  According to the description on the bobblehead box:

Robert Edward Lee, a West Point graduate, was the first to graduate with no demerits during his four years at the Academy. After his graduation he married Mary Custis, the daughter of George Washington Parke Custis. As a General of the Confederate Army his achievements won him a high place amongst the great generals of history. Even after his surrender to General Grant, he was an example of how southern gentlemen should behave by taking action to rebuild the south and urging on his own people to accept the new conditions of the nation. This boxed Robert E. Lee Bobblehead is made of resin and is approximately 7.6” tall.

That’s not very helpful since the supposed connection between Washington and Lee is thought to have been much more substantial.  I thought it might be an opportune moment to recycle an old post on just this question.  The following was posted last May as I was finishing up Elizabeth Brown Pryor’s Reading the Man: A Portrait of Robert E. Lee Through His Private Letters (Viking 2007).  This book is a must read.

One of the early chapters in Pryor’s book deals with the supposed influence of Washington’s memory on Lee’s life.  Most of us take it for granted that Lee idolized the first president and even some historians have assumed a “mystical bond between the two men.”  Pryor argues that most of these stories surfaced following the Civil War as part of a broader push on the part of white Southerners to justify secession and connect the Confederate experience to the “untarnished greatness” of Washington.  Of course there is a great deal of history to work with in forging this connection given Lee’s marriage and his early years which were spent in large part at Arlington and in the shadow of Washington’s memory.  Pryor does not ignore any of this evidence, in fact she agrees that the memory of Washington did play a role in shaping Lee’s career and personal behavior.

Readers will appreciate Pryor’s attention to detail, especially in her grasp of the relevant secondary sources.  She does not attempt to build a strawman argument here, but cites directly those historians who have pushed this connection to the extreme.  The best place to start is with D.S. Freeman’s excellent biography of Lee:

His ideals had their embodiment, for unconsciously he was a hero-worshipper. He viewed his father not as “Light-Horse Harry” was in the tragic years of his speculation, but as he might have been if the promise of his Revolutionary record had been fulfilled. Above his father and every other man he had always placed Washington. The Father of his Country was no mere historical figure to him, great but impersonal and indistinct. Through Lee’s long years of association with Mr. Custis, who knew Washington better than did any man alive in 1850, Washington was as real to him as if the majestic Virginian had stepped down nightly from the canvas at Arlington and had talked reminiscently with the family about the birth of an earlier revolution. Daily, for almost thirty years, whenever Lee had been at home, his environment had been a constant suggestion of the same ideal. He had come to view duty as Washington did, to act as he thought Washington would, and even, perhaps, to emulate the grave, self-contained courtesy of the great American rebel. The modesty of his nature doubtless kept Lee now from drawing the very obvious analogy between his situation and that of Washington in 1775, but the influence and the ideal were deep in his soul. He would not have shaped such a question, even in his own mind, but those who knew him as the inheritor of the Mount Vernon tradition must have asked if he was destined to be the Washington of the South’s war for independence. [Interestingly Freeman does not cite any sources for this claim.]

More recently, Pryor references Richard McClaslin’s book-length study, Lee in the Shadow of Washington.  Most of the following commentary can be found in Pryor’s endnotes.  McClaslin’s evidence includes letters from Lee’s father on paternal guidance, but they do not mention Washington and there is no evidence that Lee ever read them.  In addition, McClaslin cites Henry Lee’s memoirs, but again there is no evidence that he actually read it until after the Civil War or if he did that it had any influence.  (fn60, p. 497)  Additional footnotes further challenge claims made by McClaslin in reference to the Mexican War and Lee’s decision to continue to improve Arlington for the purposes of displaying Washington relics.  In the case of the latter, Lee did indeed add a parlor room in 1855, but the room was filled with Lee family portraits and other items.

One of Pryor’s guiding interpretive assumptions is that our understanding of Lee’s personal side is based on little documentary evidence.  We have yet to collect all of his correspondence and while collections of wartime correspondence are available much of the rest of what we believe about Lee is based on fragmentary evidence – especially his early years.  In the case of Washington’s supposed influence on Lee, Pryor concludes with the following:

In ten thousand letter pages Robert Lee mentions Washington fewer than two dozen times.  He remarks on the public’s interest in its leader; mentions that he looked over a popular biography was sent to him by a friend; notes that celebration of his birthday.  Most of these comments are quite casual.  In his most enthusiastic writing on the subject, Lee, like others of his day, points to Washington’s wisdom and integrity, and particularly praises his valedictory address to the American people, which, ironically, cautioned against growing sectionalism.  But even in his most fulsome expression, the remarks are general, steeped in the national pride of the day, rather than personal feelings.  Never does Lee say he idolizes Washington, or that he hopes to emulate him.  The closest Lee came to a conscious association was after the war, when he struggled to come to terms with his decision to join the Confederate cause, and cites Washington’s change from British to American allegiance as an example of an earlier crisis of loyalty.  But this was after the fact.  During those terrible days of 1861 he used Washington’s name quite differently–as justification for maintaining Union. (p. 52)

I think it is important to remind the reader once again that Pryor is not arguing that memory of Washington did not influence Lee, but that the extent of that influence suggested by historians and other commentators is not borne out in the primary source material that is currently available.

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7 comments… add one
  • Kevin Levin Mar 11, 2009 @ 2:06

    W&L Alum,

    Thanks for taking the time to comment. I agree that it is “generally accepted” but historians must work on the available evidence and, according to Pryor, some of the more extreme claims about Lee’s supposed identification with Washington are not grounded in evidence. So, what do we do about that?


    It’s interesting that we didn’t hear too much in the way of the standard responses to this type of biography that it represents the liberal-revisionist slant of the academic community. Pryor is not a Civil War historian (in the obvious sense) and her book is thoroughly researched regardless of whether you agree with all of her conclusions, which I certainly do not.

  • Larry Cebula Mar 10, 2009 @ 20:07

    Something about the proportions reminds me of a Precious Moments doll–an adult, hirsute, treasonous Precious Moments doll.

  • Will Hickox Mar 10, 2009 @ 19:28

    Some of Pryor’s “reviews” on amazon appear to have been written by bobbleheads. One of these induhviduals (as Dilbert creator Scott Adams dubbed the type) calls her a “pissant” for daring to dig under the marble facade built around Lee. As usual, more revealing of the writer than of the subject.

  • w&l_alum Mar 10, 2009 @ 17:07

    Lee’s wife, Mary, was Martha Washington’s great-granddaughter (but not George’s; a different marriage). So genealogically, it was a somewhat tenuous connection. Nevertheless, the Washington family paintings passed down to Mary Lee, and this very tangible connection ended up surrounding Lee on the walls of his family home at Arlington. (Those paintings came to Washington & Lee University, where the Lees are all buried, and now hang mostly in the Lee Chapel there.)

    In addition, his father, Light Horse Harry Lee, rode alongside Washington, leading the troops that put down the Whiskey Rebellion in 1794. Two great-uncles, Richard Henry Lee and Francis Lightfoot Lee, signed the Declaration of Independence. So the Founding Fathers’ establishment was all entwined with Lees and George Washington.

    It’s generally accepted (if not documented in Lee’s letters, which were never introspective, no matter what Pryor imagines) that Lee’s admiration for and family connections to Washington, together with the opportunity to work at something noble and useful (rather than just sell his name as a front man to an insurance company or another such venture, as were among his other postwar employment offers), persuaded him to accept he presidency of an isolated, unknown Latin prep school, as it was before he transformed it into a university of national stature.

  • rhapsodyinbooks Mar 10, 2009 @ 9:07

    There is article on the subject that might interest you (or maybe not, it’s sort of off topic!) by Yael Zerubavel entitled “The Death of Memory and the Memory of Death: Masada and the Holocaust as Historical Metaphors” (Representations 45, Winter 1994). In this article Zerubavel contends that the story of the siege and martyrdom at Masada was ignored as an obscure episode for centuries. When the Zionist movement came along and needed an image of “love of freedom and national dignity” Masada was “raised as a model of behavior and an important patriotic lesson.” The author contends that “to fulfill this role, the Masada commemorative narrative required a highly selective representation of the historical record. By emphasizing certain aspects of Josephus’ account and ignoring others, the commemorative narrative reshaped the memory of that episode and transformed its meaning.”

    I believe this is analogous to what you were talking about earlier with the selective narratives regarding the Civil War.

    In any event, there’s something in this story that would make a good bobblehead. Maybe I should look into that….

  • rhapsodyinbooks Mar 10, 2009 @ 5:59

    Very interesting post. However I tend to think Mt. Vernon just figures history-related = possibility to make money.

    Relatedly, however, to the thesis that tying Lee to Washington enhances Lee’s image, I am reading a book now about Lincoln’s years as a lawyer (“An Honest Calling” by Mark E. Steiner) in which the author argues that the memory of Lincoln as a lawyer was deliberately downplayed and mischaracterized by his numerous hagiographers because of the negative cultural image of lawyers in American society.

    The nexus between history and memory is such a great subject! Have you ever read anything on the battle between history and cultural image regarding Masada? I reckon at the Masada Museum (there must be one) you would find a bobblehead of Eleazar! (And it would make a way more appropriate present for Hanukkah!)

    • Kevin Levin Mar 10, 2009 @ 6:10


      No doubt and I am willing to bet that the Lee bobblehead outsells G.W. I read Brian Dirck’s study of Lincoln’s law career, but not Steiner. That point about the memory of Lincoln and the law is quite interesting so perhaps I will check it out.

      Unfortunately, this Reformed Jew can’t tell you much about Masada or Eleazar. 🙁

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